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Seducing women
How to seduce women correctly
A man who wants to successfully seduce women, must learn a lot about the female psyche. He must learn to understand how women react to certain behavioural pattern, and which things affect them in a seductive way. Concentrating effectively on the spiritual part of the woman promises greater success in seduction than mainly going for the optical attractions. In the following discussion it is assumed that you are trying to win a women for a longer period of time than just one night. Your ultimate goal is to get the woman to actually fall in love with you.
Women place great value in the honesty of a man. This feeling of being treated with honesty will soon encourage them to let their guard down and to trust the advancing seducer. Nevertheless, at the very beginning you should not show your intentions too clearly. It is very important to act more subtly than your competitors as this could lead the chosen woman to develop a defence attitude after you have let her discover your intentions. Women are put off by too obvious advances and chat-up lines and desperate conquest attempts. A gentle seduction strategy is more effective with women and is clearly more pleasantly felt and accepted in most cases.
A relaxed, positive and optimistic charismatic vibrancy is an absolute must for you. By emitting calmness and determination you are conveying the message of standing firmly in life without losing patience in precarious situations. This doesn’t only have a seductive effect on women but is making a very interesting impression on all people. If you can’t arouse real interest with the women, all your attempts will be in vain. You must therefore stand out of the “boring” mass, by neither seeming average nor insecure. With self confidence you are the master of the situation and make sure that to convey the impression that women can let their guard down with you. In this way you bring the woman of your desire into your world and can seduce her successfully.
As soon as you start verbally communicating with the woman of your choice, you must choose bright, happy and positive topics. You can start with totally irrelevant topics just to start the conversation. Negative feelings and subjects must be avoided, if the woman in your company is to associate you with positive feelings and memories. This also refers to all outings and activities of any kind that you are both undertaking together. It is generally of great advantage if women associate fun and a carefree emotion with you. If you can convey the feeling, that time with you is of no essence, and you can take the edge off the daily routine tempo, then it is only a matter of time till the person of your choice falls in love with you.
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